I can't go back. The past won't go away in this family.
Frank MccourtRead
Love her as in childhood Through feeble, old and grey. For you’ll never miss a mother’s love Till she’s buried beneath the clay.
Interpretation
Cherish and appreciate your mother's love throughout her life, as it is truly irreplaceable.
This quote emphasizes the profound and often unappreciated love that a mother provides from childhood to the end of her life. It serves as a reminder to value and express love for one's mother while she is alive, as the absence of her nurturing presence will be deeply felt once she is gone.
In practice
At a family gathering, I shared this quote to remind everyone to cherish our mother's love.
I can't go back. The past won't go away in this family.
Sit and quiet yourself. Luxuriate in a certain memory and the details will come. Let the images flow. You'll be amazed at what will come out on paper. I'm still learning what it is about the past that I want to write. I don't worry about it. It will emerge. It will insist on being told.
Kids all want to look cool, as if knowledge is a great burden, but they're always looking around. They remember.
That's what kept us going - a sense of absurdity, rather than humor.
A mother's love is a blessing No matter where you roam. Keep her while you have her, You'll miss her when she's gone -- Angela's Ashes.
You might be poor, your shoes might be broken, but your mind is a palace.
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.
But, in fact, there is nothing that can bring you closer to fearlessness about everything else in the world than being a parent - because everyday fears - like not being approved of - pale by comparison to the fears you have about your children.
A mother is not a person to lean on but a person to make leaning unnessary.
Give me the life of the boy whose mother is nurse, seamstress, washerwoman, cook, teacher, angel, and saint, all in one, and whose father is guide, exemplar, and friend. No servants to come between. These are the boys who are born to the best fortune.
The place of the father in the modern suburban family is a very small one, particularly if he plays golf.
To a father, when a child dies, the future dies; to a child when a parent dies, the past dies.
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