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We have a choice. We can seek for the bad in others. Or we can make peace and work to extend to others the understanding, fairness, and forgiveness we so desperately desire for ourselves. It is our choice; for whatever we seek, that we will certainly find.
Dieter F. Uchtdorf
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Interpretation

What this quote means

We can choose to focus on negativity or choose to promote peace and understanding.

This quote emphasizes the power of choice in our interactions with others. It suggests that instead of seeking negative traits in people, we should strive for understanding and forgiveness, as the way we approach others reflects our own desires for kindness and empathy in return.

Themes

ChoiceUnderstandingForgivenessPeaceEmpathy

In practice

Example use cases

During a discussion on conflict resolution, one could reference this quote to advocate for looking for positive solutions.

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