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You didn't have a choice about the parents you inherited, but you do have a choice about the kind of parent you will be.
Marian Wright Edelman
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What this quote means

While you can't choose your parents, you can choose how you raise your own children.

This quote emphasizes that, although we have no control over who our parents are or the families we are born into, we have the power and responsibility to consciously decide the kind of parents we want to become. It highlights the importance of intentional parenting and the influence we can have on the next generation, encouraging individuals to take an active role in shaping their family's values and environment.

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In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a parenting workshop to inspire new parents.

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