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He that blows the coals in quarrels that he has nothing to do with, has no right to complain if the sparks fly in his face. - Ben Franklin
Interpretation
What this quote means
Engaging in conflicts that do not involve you can have unintended consequences.
This quote by Benjamin Franklin emphasizes the importance of not involving oneself in disputes that do not concern them. By instigating or fueling conflicts, one exposes themselves to potential negative outcomes, suggesting that it is wise to avoid meddling in the affairs of others.
Themes
ConflictMeddlingConsequencesDisputesWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
During a workplace discussion, I referenced Franklin's quote to remind colleagues not to get involved in departmental clashes.
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