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Coherence and closure are deep human desires that are presently unfashionable. But they are always both frightening and enchantingly desirable. "Falling in love," characteristically, combs the appearances of the word, and of the particular lover's history, out of a random tangle and into a coherent plot.
A. S. Byatt
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the human need for coherence in love, despite its complexities.

A. S. Byatt suggests that love has the power to transform chaotic emotions and experiences into a meaningful narrative. It reflects on our innate desire for clarity and closure in relationships, highlighting how love can create a sense of order from life's randomness, even though this desire sometimes appears outdated or challenging to pursue.

Themes

LoveCoherenceRelationshipsDesiresNarrative

In practice

Example use cases

A wedding speech about the beauty of love's narrative power.

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