I think it is selfish for me to try to frame Me Too as something that I own. It is bigger than me and bigger than Alyssa Milano. Neither one of us should be centered in this work. This is about survivors.
Tarana BurkeRead
As a community, we create a lot of space for fighting and pushing back, but not enough for connecting and healing.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes the importance of fostering connection and healing within a community rather than focusing solely on conflict.
Tarana Burke highlights a crucial aspect of community dynamics: while it is easy to engage in conflict and resistance, true progress comes from creating environments that encourage connection and healing among individuals. This speaks to the need for nurturing relationships and support systems that help individuals overcome challenges together.
In practice
In a community event focused on mental health, this quote could inspire discussions about the need for support rather than division.
I think it is selfish for me to try to frame Me Too as something that I own. It is bigger than me and bigger than Alyssa Milano. Neither one of us should be centered in this work. This is about survivors.
Get up. Stand up. Speak up. Do something.
'Me Too' became the way to succinctly and powerfully connect with other people and give people permission to start their journey to heal.
We want to turn victims into survivors - and survivors into thrivers.
I think that women of color use social media to make our voices heard with or without the amplification of white women. I also think that, many times, when white women want our support, they use an umbrella of 'women supporting women' and forget that they didn't lend the same kind of support.
Men need to help reshape the conversation around consent.
Community means strength that joins our strength to do the work that needs to be done. Arms to hold us when we falter. A circle of healing. A circle of friends. Someplace where we can be free.
People don't believe or understand that a community can lose hope. You can have a whole community where hopelessness is the norm, where folks don't have faith that things will get better because history and circumstances have proven over 30, 40, or 50 years that things don't get better.
People rescue each other. They build shelters and community kitchens and ways to deal with lost children and eventually rebuild one way or another.
My view is that good community management is like having good municipal government: You should be able to have dissenting opinions and so on, freedom of speech, but your grandmother should also be able to walk down the street at night without having to worry about getting mugged.
Each of us must rededicate ourselves to serving the common good. We are a community. Our individual Fates are linked; our futures intertwined; and if we act in that knowledge and in that spirit together, as the Bible says: "We can move mountains."
I was taken by the power that savoring a simple cup of coffee can have to connect people and create community.
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