Maharajji told me, 'Give up anger and I'll help you.' I found _x000D_ that love freed me back into the ocean of love and my righteous anger didn't do that. And I would rather be free than right.
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Compassion and pity are very different. Whereas compassion reflects the yearning of the heart to merge and take on some of the suffering, pity is a controlled set of thoughts designed to assure separateness. Compassion is the spontaneous response of love; pity, the involuntary reflex of fear.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Compassion involves sharing the feelings of others while pity creates a distance between individuals.
In this quote, Ram Dass distinguishes between compassion and pity by highlighting their contrasting emotional responses. Compassion arises from a deep connection and a desire to alleviate others' suffering, reflecting love and empathy, whereas pity is characterized by feelings of superiority and detachment, often rooted in fear, thus failing to engage with the suffering on a deeper level.
Themes
CompassionPityEmpathyLoveSuffering
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of empathy in mental health awareness.
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