I can only note that the past is beautiful because one never realises an emotion at the time. It expands later, and thus we don't have complete emotions about the present, only about the past.
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Once conform, once do what other people do because they do it, and a lethargy steals over all the finer nerves and faculties of the soul. She becomes all outer show and inward emptiness; dull, callous, and indifferent.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Conforming to others leads to a loss of individuality and depth of character.
Virginia Woolf warns that when individuals blindly follow societal norms and expectations, they sacrifice their inner richness and vitality. This conformity results in a superficial existence, where one may appear outwardly normal but feels hollow and disengaged from their true self. The quote emphasizes the danger of losing one's unique qualities and passions in the pursuit of acceptance.
Themes
ConformityIndividualityEmptinessSoulSelf
In practice
Example use cases
Use this quote in a discussion about the importance of individuality in a team setting.
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