We must declare ourselves, become known; allow the world to discover this subterranean life of ours which connects kings and farm boys, artists and clerks. Let them see that the important thing is not the object of love, but the emotion itself.
Having no contemporaries left means you cannot say, 'Well, so-and-so will like this,' which you do when you're younger. You realize there is no so-and-so anymore. You are your own so-and-so. There is a bleak side to it.
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What this quote means
As we age and lose our peers, we must rely on our own judgments and preferences without seeking external validation.
Gore Vidal's quote reflects the notion that as we grow older, especially when we lose contemporaries, we face a deeper sense of solitude. This solitude brings both an empowering realization that we no longer seek approval or companionship from others when expressing ourselves, yet it also carries a somber acknowledgement of isolation, as we become solely responsible for our perspectives and tastes. In doing so, we transition from valuing external opinions to embracing our individuality.
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This quote can be shared during a retirement speech to reflect on personal growth.
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