Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Robert Louis StevensonRead
The correction of silence is what kills; when you know you have transgressed, and your friend says nothing, and avoids your eye.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Silence can indicate deeper issues in a friendship, especially when one person feels guilty and the other does not confront them.
This quote by Robert Louis Stevenson highlights the pain caused by silence in relationships, particularly when one friend has wronged the other. It suggests that avoiding confrontation and not addressing transgressions can lead to feelings of guilt and unease, creating a silent tension that is more damaging than open communication would be.
Themes
SilenceFriendshipCommunicationGuiltTransgression
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about maintaining healthy relationships, one might refer to this quote to emphasize the importance of open communication.
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