If you live long enough, you'll see that every victory turns into a defeat.
Simone De BeauvoirRead
I could see no reason for being sad. It´s just that it makes me unhappy not to feel happy.
Interpretation
The quote expresses the idea that sadness is unnecessary and that the absence of happiness can be a source of unhappiness.
Simone De Beauvoir reflects on the nature of happiness and sadness, suggesting that one should not dwell in sadness, as it is counterproductive and only leads to more unhappiness. The quote emphasizes the human desire for happiness and the discomfort caused by its absence, advocating for a proactive approach towards cultivating joy.
In practice
During a motivational speech about mental health.
If you live long enough, you'll see that every victory turns into a defeat.
Two separate beings, in different circumstances, face to face in freedom and seeking justification of their existence through one another, will always live an adventure full of risk and promise." (p. 248)
To catch a husband is an art; to hold him is a job.
Sex pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken.
As long as there have been men and they have lived, they have all felt this tragic ambiguity of their condition, but as long as there have been philosophers and they have thought, most of them have tried to mask it.
Few tasks are more like the torture of Sisyphus than housework, with its endless repetition: the clean becomes soiled, the soiled is made clean, over and over, day after day. The housewife wears herself out marking time: she makes nothing, simply perpetuates the present … Eating, sleeping, cleaning – the years no longer rise up towards heaven, they lie spread out ahead, grey and identical. The battle against dust and dirt is never won.
I'm happy. I give thanks every morning that I can get up, that I still have my husband with me. I'm extremely grateful. After all, how many 93-year-old cover girls do you know?
Be cheerful in all that you do. Live joyfully. Live happily. Live enthusiastically, knowing that God does not dwell in gloom and melancholy, but in light and love.
Man is never always happy, and very often only a brief period of happiness is granted him in this world; so why escape from this dream which cannot last long?
Why not seize the pleasure at once? -- How often is happiness destroyed by preparation, foolish preparation!
All human history attests That happiness for man, - the hungry sinner! - Since Eve ate apples, much depends on dinner. ~Lord Byron, Don Juan, Canto XIII, stanza 99
Man needs, for his happiness, not only the enjoyment of this or that, but hope and enterprise and change.
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