There's an old saying: 'No piece of writing is ever finished, it's just abandoned.' But my own rule is: No piece of work is done until you want to kill everyone involved in the publishing process, especially yourself.
I wish I had the courage not to fight and doubt everything... I wish, just once, I could say, 'This. This is good enough. Just because I choose it.
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What this quote means
The quote expresses a desire for the bravery to accept one's choices and the sufficiency of those choices without constant self-doubt.
In this quote, Chuck Palahniuk reflects on the internal struggle between self-acceptance and the relentless questioning of one’s decisions. He wishes for the courage to embrace his choices as worthy and sufficient, rather than constantly battling feelings of inadequacy. It highlights the importance of confidence in one’s decisions and the freedom that comes from self-acceptance, suggesting that true strength lies not in the absence of doubt, but in choosing to be content with one’s path.
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Example use cases
This quote could be shared during a motivational speech about personal growth.
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