Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. Humility is thinking more of others.
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If there was more courting in marriage, there'd be fewer marriages in court. Date your mate. Today.
Interpretation
Prioritizing courtship in marriage can lead to stronger relationships and fewer legal issues. Couples should make an effort to date each other regularly.
Rick Warren emphasizes the importance of maintaining the spirit of courtship in a marriage to foster connection and avoid misunderstandings that may lead to legal disputes. By suggesting that partners 'date their mate,' he encourages couples to actively invest in their relationship, reinforcing love, commitment, and communication, essential elements for a lasting marriage.
In practice
In a wedding speech to highlight the importance of ongoing romance in marriage.
Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. Humility is thinking more of others.
The search for the purpose of life has puzzled people for thousands of years. That’s because we typically begin at the wrong starting point—ourselves. We ask self-centered questions like What do I want to be? What should I do with my life? What are my goals, my ambitions, my dreams for my future? But focusing on ourselves will never reveal our life’s purpose.
Resentment always hurts you more than it does the person you resent. While your offender has probably forgotten the offense and gone on with life, you continue to stew in your pain, perpetuating the past. Listen: those who hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on to the pain through resentment. Your past is past! Nothing will change it. You are only hurting yourself with your bitterness. For your own sake, learn from it, and then let it go.
Our culture has accepted two huge lies. The first is that if you disagree with someone’s lifestyle, you must fear or hate them. The second is that to love someone means you agree with everything they believe or do. Both are nonsense. You don’t have to compromise convictions to be compassionate.
It’s not just what you eat that matters, it’s what eats you. You can have all the right macrobiotics and organic food, but if your body is filled with resentment, worry, fear, lust, guilt, anger, bitterness, or any other emotional disease, it’s going to shorten your life.
Being successful and fulfilling your lifes purpose are not at all the same thing; You can reach all your personal goals, become a raving success by the worlds standard and still miss your purpose in this life.
When a marriage founders, this may well be cause for tremendous sadness, but it's not a failure of spirit or character. People change, their goals and dreams alter, their ideas of themselves grow, or they just meet someone they like better.
When we are seen by the heart we are seen for who we are. We are valued in our uniqueness by those who are able to see us in this way and we become able to know and value ourselves.
If I am constantly working, my relationships fail. So at least now I can have enough time to write a happy record. And be in love and be happy.
Much of the time, the things we feel guilty about are not our issues. Another person behaves inappropriately or in some way violates our boundaries. We challenge the behavior, and the person gets angry and defensive. Then we feel guilty.
I prefer neurotic people. I like to hear rumblings beneath the surface.
Different taste in jokes is a great strain on the affections.
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