The honors Hollywood has for the writer are as dubious as tissue-paper cuff links.
Ben HechtRead
Criticism can never instruct or benefit you. Its chief effect is that of a telegram with dubious news. Praise leaves no glow behind, for it is a writer's habit to remember nothing good of himself. I have usually forgotten those who have admired my work, and seldom anyone who disliked it. Obviously, this is because praise is never enough and censure always too much.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Criticism has a stronger impact on us than praise, often leading to lasting negative feelings.
In this quote, Ben Hecht expresses the idea that while criticism tends to stick with us and influence our perceptions, praise can easily be forgotten. He suggests that criticism can overwhelm us, overshadowing any positive recognition we receive, indicating that our minds often linger on negative feedback more than positive affirmations.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a speech on resilience in the face of negativity.
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