Where misunderstanding serves others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.
Lionel TrillingRead
Our culture peculiarly honors the act of blaming, which it takes as the sign of virtue and intellect.
Interpretation
The quote highlights society's tendency to value criticism over understanding.
Lionel Trilling's quote critiques the cultural phenomenon where people are often lauded for their ability to blame others, seeing this as a sign of intelligence and moral standing. This mindset can cultivate a culture of fault-finding, where understanding and empathy are overshadowed by the desire to assign blame, suggesting that society may need to reconsider what it truly values in behavior and intellect.
In practice
In a discussion about social accountability, one might say, 'As Lionel Trilling pointed out, our culture peculiarly honors the act of blaming.'
Where misunderstanding serves others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.
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