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Dammit Sir, it's your duty to get married. You can't always be living for pleasure!
Oscar Wilde
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote emphasizes the importance of commitment over hedonistic pursuits.

Oscar Wilde's quote highlights a tension between personal enjoyment and societal expectations. It suggests that there are responsibilities and commitments, such as marriage, that one should prioritize over a life of endless pleasure-seeking. Wilde conveys that while living for pleasure has its appeal, fulfilling obligations to others is a vital part of adulthood and relationships.

Themes

CommitmentLoveMarriageResponsibilityPleasure

In practice

Example use cases

In a wedding toast reflecting on the importance of marriage.

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