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I will rejoice the day when they say: This is right whether we all rot on top of each other or not, dear children, as we certainly may. Either practice restraint or be prepared for crowding.
Flannery O'Connor
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects on the need for balance and restraint in society to avoid chaos and conflict.

Flannery O'Connor's quote examines the paradox of human existence and societal behavior, suggesting that the choices we make regarding restraint directly impact the quality of our communal life. By acknowledging the potential for crowding and the need for self-discipline, O'Connor emphasizes that our actions determine whether we live harmoniously or face inevitable chaos.

Themes

RestraintCrowdingSocietySelf-DisciplineBalance

In practice

Example use cases

In a public speech about the importance of community, one might say, 'As Flannery O'Connor suggested, we must practice restraint or prepare for crowding.'

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