It is in deep solitude and silence that I find the gentleness with which I can truly love my brother and sister.
Interpretation
Solitude and silence help cultivate true love for others.
In the quote, Thomas Merton emphasizes that finding peace through solitude and silence allows one to develop genuine feelings of love and compassion for others. This suggests that introspection and self-awareness are essential to fostering meaningful relationships with those we care about.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of community, one might say, 'As Thomas Merton reminds us, it is in deep solitude and silence that we can foster real love for our friends and family.'
The devil is no fool. He can get people feeling about heaven the way they ought to feel about hell. He can make them fear the means of grace the way they do not fear sin. And he does so, not by light but by obscurity, not by realities but by shadows; not by clarity and substance, but by dreams and the creatures of psychosis. And men are so poor in intellect that a few cold chills down their spine will be enough to keep them from ever finding out the truth about anything.
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Conscience is the light by which we interpret the will of God in our own lives.
You are made in the image of what you desire.
But if you want to identify me, ask me not where I live, or what I like to eat, or how I comb my hair, but ask me what I think I am living for.
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What's the earth With all its art, verse, music, worth — Compared with love, found, gained, and kept?
But if you come at just any time, I shall never know at what hour my heart is to be ready to greet you.
It is difficult to know at what moment love begins; it is less difficult to know that it has begun.
You can’t replace people you love with other people…But you can trust that you’re not going to run out of people to love.
The secret of a happy marriage is finding the right person. You know they're right if you love to be with them all the time.
Believing that you are unworthy of love and belonging or that who you are authentically is a sin or is wrong, is deadly.
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