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The demands of having to be 'masculine' are as damaging to men as the demands of having to be 'feminine' are to women. I wish we could all agree just to wash it all away. Begin again.
Naomi Alderman
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What this quote means

The pressures of gender roles harm both men and women, and we should aim to move beyond them.

Naomi Alderman highlights the detrimental effects that societal expectations of masculinity and femininity have on individuals. She suggests that both men and women face pressures that can be damaging, and she advocates for a collective effort to break free from these constraints and start anew, promoting a more egalitarian view of gender roles.

Themes

GenderMasculinityFemininitySocietyRolesEqualityFreedom

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion on gender equality, this quote can highlight the need for changing societal expectations.

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