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Denial helps us to pace our feelings of grief. There is a grace in denial. It is nature's way of letting in only as much as we can handle.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Denial allows us to cope with grief by regulating the amount of emotional pain we feel at one time.

This quote by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross highlights the role of denial as a protective mechanism when dealing with loss and grief. It suggests that denial serves a critical function in our emotional processing, allowing individuals to gradually confront their feelings without being overwhelmed, thus offering a sense of grace in handling such difficult emotions.

Themes

DenialGriefEmotionsCopingClosure

In practice

Example use cases

This quote is perfect for a presentation on the stages of grief.

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