The difference between the Japanese and the American is summed up in their opposite reactions to the proverb (popular in both nations), "A rolling stone gathers no moss." Epidemiologist S. Leonard Syme observes that to the Japanese, moss is exquisite and valued; a stone is enhanced by moss; hence a person who keeps moving and changing never acquires the beauty and benefits of stability. To Americans, the proverb is an admonition to keep rolling, to keep from being covered with clinging attachments.
Most people, when directly confronted by evidence that they are wrong, do not change their point of view or course of action but justify it even more… - Carol Tavris
Most people, when directly confronted by evidence that they are wrong, do not change their point of view or course of action but justify it even more…
- Carol Tavris
The history of the women's movement in America follows a consciousness-amnesia cycle. - Carol Tavris
The history of the women's movement in America follows a consciousness-amnesia cycle.
The scientific method is designed to help investigators overcome the most entrenched human cognitive habit: the confirmation bias, the tendency to no… - Carol Tavris
The scientific method is designed to help investigators overcome the most entrenched human cognitive habit: the confirmation bias, the tendency to no…
Depression is not 'anger turned inward'; if anything, anger is depression turned outward. Follow the trail of anger inward, and there you will find t… - Carol Tavris
Depression is not 'anger turned inward'; if anything, anger is depression turned outward. Follow the trail of anger inward, and there you will find t…
For some of the large indignities of life, the best remedy is direct action. For the small indignities, the best remedy is a Charlie Chaplin movie. … - Carol Tavris
For some of the large indignities of life, the best remedy is direct action. For the small indignities, the best remedy is a Charlie Chaplin movie. …
Doubt is not the enemy of justice; overconfidence is. - Carol Tavris
Doubt is not the enemy of justice; overconfidence is.
Even irrefutable evidence is rarely enough to pierce the mental armor of self-justification. - Carol Tavris
Even irrefutable evidence is rarely enough to pierce the mental armor of self-justification.
In the horrifying calculus of self-deception, the greater the pain we inflict on others, the greater the need to justify it to maintain our feelings … - Carol Tavris
In the horrifying calculus of self-deception, the greater the pain we inflict on others, the greater the need to justify it to maintain our feelings …
As in all moral panics, an accusation is enough to destroy a person's life. Hysteria trumps evidence. - Carol Tavris
As in all moral panics, an accusation is enough to destroy a person's life. Hysteria trumps evidence.
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