You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
But there are all different kinds of freedom, and the kind that is most precious you will not hear much talked about in the great outside world of winning and achieving and displaying.
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What this quote means
True freedom encompasses more than just societal accomplishments; it involves deeper, inner liberation that is often overlooked.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace emphasizes that while society often celebrates freedom in terms of success and display, there is a more profound and precious form of freedom that transcends these superficial measures. This deeper freedom relates to self-awareness, authenticity, and the ability to be true to oneself, which are rarely acknowledged in mainstream conversations about achievement.
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In a speech about personal growth, I could say, 'As David Foster Wallace pointed out, the most precious kind of freedom is often ignored in our pursuit of success.'
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All quotes →Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
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Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like you’ve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and it’s like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
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