Distrust compassion; prefer dignity for yourself and others. Don't be afraid to be thought arrogant or selfish.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of maintaining dignity over merely showing compassion.
Christopher Hitchens advocates for the idea that individuals should prioritize dignity for themselves and others rather than relying solely on compassion. He warns against the societal tendency to equate compassion with virtue, suggesting that true respect and self-worth might sometimes be perceived as arrogance or selfishness in a world that often values emotional responses over the inherent dignity of individuals.
In practice
In a motivational seminar about self-respect.
In a public dialogue with Salman in London he [Edward Said] had once described the Palestinian plight as one where his people, expelled and dispossessed by Jewish victors, were in the unique historical position of being 'the victims of the victims': there was something quasi-Christian, I thought, in the apparent humility of that statement.
What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.
Never ask while you are doing it if what you are doing is fun. Don't introduce even your most reliably witty acquaintance as someone who will set the table on a roar.
[E]xceptional claims demand exceptional evidence.
The worst days are when you feel foggy in the head - chemo-brain they call it. It's awful because you feel boring. As well as bored. And stupid. And resigned.
Let me tell you something: for hundreds of thousands of years, this kind of discussion would have been impossible to have, or those like us would have been having it at the risk of our lives. Religion now comes to us in this smiley-face, ingratiating way β because itβs had to give so much more ground and because we know so much more. But youβve got no right to forget the way it behaved when it was strong, and when it really did believe that it had God on its side.
He was near tears, 'Who do I blame?' he kept asking me. 'There is no God.I can only blame myself.'" The Reb's face tightened, as if in pain. "That," he said, softly, "is a terrible self-indictment." Worse than an unanswered prayer? "Oh yes. It is far more comforting to think God listened and said no, than to think that nobody's out there.
The hypocrite who always plays one and the same part ceases at last to be a hypocrite.
The abjection of our political situation is the only true challenge today. Only facing up to this situation in all its desperation can help us get out of it.
There is no place for government to prohibit consumers from buying products the effect of which will be to harm themselves.
We all have a fundamental right to live free from fear, free from crime, and free from disorder - but while we share that right, we also share the duty to secure it.
Our Age of Anxiety is, in great part, the result of trying to do today's job with yesterday's tools and yesterday's concepts.
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