Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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Don’t complain about the snow on your neighbor’s roof when your own doorstep is unclean.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Focus on your own issues rather than criticizing others.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and personal responsibility. It suggests that before pointing out the flaws or problems of others, one should first address their own shortcomings. This principle encourages individuals to cultivate their own character and behavior rather than being preoccupied with the faults of those around them.
Themes
Self-ReflectionResponsibilityCriticismCharacterCleanliness
In practice
Example use cases
In a team meeting, to encourage personal accountability: 'Remember, don’t complain about the snow on your neighbor’s roof when your own doorstep is unclean.'
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