Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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Don't worry if people don't recognize your merits; worry that you may not recognize theirs.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Value the contributions of others instead of seeking recognition for your own.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of humility and the recognition of the talents and merits of those around us. It suggests that rather than being preoccupied with whether others acknowledge our own achievements, we should focus on appreciating and understanding the worth and contributions of others, fostering a more respectful and harmonious environment.
Themes
RecognitionHumilityAppreciationMeritsWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting, to remind everyone to acknowledge each otherβs contributions.
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