My success was not based so much on any great intelligence but on great common sense.
Helen Gurley BrownRead
Don't use men to get what you want in life. Get it yourself.
Interpretation
Empower yourself to achieve your goals without relying on others.
This quote emphasizes the importance of self-reliance and personal effort in achieving one's desires and goals. It suggests that rather than depending on others, individuals should take charge of their own lives and work hard to obtain what they want, promoting independence and self-empowerment.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal success.
My success was not based so much on any great intelligence but on great common sense.
If you do the best you can, no matter how bad the situation, you probably are going to come out okay.
The happiest people I know are not those who are the most beautiful, rich or famous. The happiest people I see are simply those who stay cheerful and try to cheer up others while getting through their own bad stuff
Work with the raw material you have, namely you, and never let up.
Very few people on earth ever get to say: 'I am doing, right now, the most important thing I could possibly be doing.' If you'll join this fight that's what you'll get to say
Brethren, do something; do something, do something! While societies and unions make constitutions, let us win souls. I pray you, be men of action all of you. Get to work and quit yourselves like men. Old Suvarov's idea of war is mine: `Forward and strike! No theory! Attack! Form a column! Charge bayonets! Plunge into the center of the enemy! Our one aim is to win souls; and this we are not to talk about, but do in the power of God!'
You are important enough to ask and you are blessed enough to receive back.
Just because Fate doesn't deal you the right cards, it doesn't mean you should give up. It just means you have to play the cards you get to their maximum potential.
Even if you follow other people's advice and model successful people and their blueprints, you will still fail if you don't have confidence in yourself. Everything - absolutely everything - starts with you.
Part of the issue of achievement is to be able to set realistic goals, but that's one of the hardest things to do because you don't always know exactly where you're going, and you shouldn't.
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