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That what appears to be egoism so often isn't.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Egoism may not be as self-centered as it seems.
This quote by David Foster Wallace suggests that what we often perceive as egoism or self-serving behavior may actually stem from deeper motivations or complexities within human nature. It challenges the superficial interpretation of actions and invites us to consider the underlying factors that contribute to how people act, emphasizing the nuanced nature of human relationships and intentions.
Themes
EgoismHuman NaturePerceptionSelflessnessBehavior
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about social behaviors in psychology.
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