We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
OvidRead
You who seek an end of love, love yields to business: be busy, and you will be safe.
Interpretation
Focusing on work can provide a distraction from the difficulties of love.
Ovid suggests that those who wish to escape the complexities and pains of love might find solace in immersing themselves in work. By prioritizing business and productivity, individuals can shield themselves from emotional vulnerabilities that come with love, highlighting a tension between romantic desires and practical responsibilities.
In practice
During a speech on balancing work and personal life, this quote could emphasize the need to focus on goals amidst complicated relationships.
We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
All things human hang by a slender thread; and that which seemed to stand strong suddenly falls and sinks in ruins.
A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip and worried to death by a frown on the right man's brow.
Fas est ab hoste doceri._x000D_ One should learn even from one's enemies.
Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.
The end doesn't justify the means.
nothing which we are to perceive in this world equals the power of your intense fragility:whose texture compels me with the colour of its countries, rendering death and forever with each breathing (i do not know what it is about you that closes and opens;only something in me understands the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses) nobody,not even the rain, has such small hands -excerpt of #35 from "100 Selected Poems
When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love them.
Today I believe in the possibility of love; that is why I endeavor to trace its imperfections, its perversions.
For a practitioner of love and compassion, an enemy is one of the most important teachers. Without an enemy you cannot practice tolerance, and without tolerance you cannot build a sound basis of compassion.
You've got to love yourself enough, not only so that others will be able to love you, but that you'll be able to love others.
If you love yourself, you love everybody else as you do yourself. As long as you love another person less than you love yourself, you will not really succeed in loving yourself but if you love all alike, including yourself, you will love them as one person and that person is both God and man.
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