How seldom we weigh our neighbor in the same balance with ourselves.
Thomas A KempisRead
Endeavor to be always patient of the faults and imperfections of others; for thou hast many faults and imperfections of thine own that require forbearance. If thou art not able to make thyself that which thou wishest, how canst thou expect to mold another in conformity to thy will?
Interpretation
What this quote means
Be patient with others' flaws, as you have your own shortcomings.
This quote emphasizes the importance of understanding and accepting the imperfections of others, while acknowledging our own faults. It suggests that if we struggle to improve ourselves, we should not expect others to change according to our expectations, promoting a message of humility and compassion in our relationships.
Themes
PatienceForbearanceImperfectionsHumilityUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about interpersonal conflicts, one might say, 'Remember, endeavor to be always patient of the faults of others.'
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