You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
Stated as an English sentence, of course, this is just a banal platitude - but the fact is that, in the day-to-day trenches of adult existence, banal platitudes can have life-or-death importance. That may sound like hyperbole, or abstract nonsense.
Interpretation
Banal platitudes may seem simple, but they can hold significant importance in our daily lives.
David Foster Wallace highlights the often overlooked value of seemingly trivial pieces of wisdom, suggesting that while they might sound cliché, in the complexities of adult life, these platitudes can guide us through critical moments and decisions. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the weight that these simple truths can carry in serious contexts.
In practice
During a motivational speech at a conference, this quote could be used to remind the audience of the value of simple truths.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
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Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
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We listen to those whom we know to be of the same opinion as ourselves, and we call them wise for being of it; but we avoid such as differ from us.
You always want to quit while you are ahead. You don't want to be like a fighter who stays too long in the ring until you're not performing at your best.
Everything can be used as an invitation to meditation
When fortune surprises us by giving us some great office without having gradually led us to expect it, or without having raised our hopes, it is well nigh impossible to occupy it well, and to appear worthy to fill it.
I don't like to give advice. I like to give people information because everyone's life is different, and everyone's journey is different.
The only person who acts sensibly is my tailor. He takes my measure anew every time he sees me. Everyone else goes by their old measurements.
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