A dogmatic belief in objective value is necessary to the very idea of a rule which is not tyranny or an obedience which is not slavery.
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Now Eros makes a man really want, not a woman, but one particular woman. In some mysterious but quite indisputable fashion the lover desires the Beloved herself, not the pleasure she can give.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes that true desire is for a specific person rather than for mere physical attraction or pleasure.
C. S. Lewis articulates the profound nature of love, suggesting that genuine affection is directed towards the essence of a specific individual, rather than the superficial aspects of a romantic relationship. The quote highlights the unique bond between the lover and the Beloved, implying that the lover's desire transcends mere physical attraction and instead encompasses the admiration and yearning for the entire being of that person.
Themes
LoveDesireConnectionBelovedAffection
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech, one might reference this quote to express the depth of love between the partners.
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