To find out your real opinion of someone, judge the impression you have when you first see a letter from them.
Arthur SchopenhauerRead
She [Evelina] is not, indeed, like most modern young ladies; to be known in half an hour; her modest worth, and fearful excellence, require both time and encouragement to show themselves.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights how true character and worth often take time to reveal, contrasting with superficial judgments.
Fanny Burney's quote emphasizes the importance of patience and understanding in recognizing a person's true qualities, particularly in a societal context that may favor quick impressions. It suggests that genuine character is often concealed and can only be appreciated through thoughtful consideration and encouragement, reminding us that deeper relationships are built over time rather than through immediate appearances.
Themes
CharacterTimeModestyWorthEncouragement
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a discussion on the value of patience in friendships.
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