I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
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Do what you will. Even if you tear yourself apart, most people will continue doing the same things.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the futility of trying to change others while advocating for personal authenticity.
Marcus Aurelius reflects on the importance of individual choices and the inevitability of human behavior remaining constant, regardless of external influences. By expressing the notion that we should act according to our will, the quote speaks to the existential struggle between self-identity and the surrounding world's indifference to our personal turmoil and efforts to enforce change upon it.
Themes
IndividualityAuthenticityHuman BehaviorChangeFutility
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech highlighting personal choices despite societal pressure.
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