The technique of positive thinking is not a technique that transforms you. It is simply repressing the negative aspects of your personality. It is a method of choice. It cannot help awareness; it goes against awareness. Awareness is always choiceless.
We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Ambition can hinder the ability to truly love, as it often prioritizes personal success over relationships with others.
In this quote, Rajneesh discusses the inherent conflict between ambition and love. He suggests that when we instill ambition in children, it fosters a mindset focused on competition and using others to achieve personal goals, ultimately detracting from the capacity for genuine love and connection. This perspective invites reflection on the potential consequences of valuing ambition too highly in our lives, suggesting that it may come at the expense of meaningful relationships.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about prioritizing relationships over career goals.
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