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There, he had seen every thing to exalt in his estimation the woman he had lost, and there begun to deplore the pride, the folly, the madness of resentment, which had kept him from trying to regain her when thrown in his way.
Jane Austen
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects on regret and the folly of allowing pride to hinder reconciliation in love.

In this quote, the speaker reflects on the loss of a beloved woman and acknowledges that pride and resentment prevented him from attempting to win her back when the opportunity arose. It highlights the deep remorse that can accompany lost love, emphasizing how emotional obstacles can cloud judgment and lead to missed chances for reconciliation.

Themes

LoveRegretPrideResentmentReconciliation

In practice

Example use cases

In a heartfelt speech at a wedding, one might quote this to emphasize the importance of communication in relationships.

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