To gain a crown by fighting is great, to reject it divine.
Friedrich SchillerRead
Every time a young girl comes in and asks me for advice, if you start your conversation with, 'How hard is it as a black woman,' or, 'How hard is it as a woman,' I turn you around. Because I cannot - we cannot look at the roadblocks and see the road at the same time.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of focusing on opportunities rather than obstacles faced by young women, especially in the context of race and gender.
Tamron Hall's quote highlights the need for young women to approach life with a mindset that prioritizes possibilities over challenges. By advising against starting conversations with a focus on hardships, she encourages empowerment and resilience, suggesting that recognizing roadblocks can hinder one's ability to see and pursue potential paths to success.
In practice
During a mentorship program for young women, I shared Tamron Hall's quote to inspire them to focus on their strengths.
To gain a crown by fighting is great, to reject it divine.
No profession or occupation is more pleasing than the military; a profession or exercise both noble in execution (for the strongest, most generous and proudest of all virtues is true valor) and noble in its cause. No utility either more just or universal than the protection of the repose or defense of the greatness of one's country. The company and daily conversation of so many noble, young and active men cannot but be well-pleasing to you.
There is a kind of strength that is almost frightening in Black women. It's as if a steel rod runs right through the head down to the feet.
I remember one of them - it was a 1941 black Ford. As it went by very slow, a guy leaned out with a shotgun, keeping a bead on us all the time, and we just had to walk slowly and wait for him to kill us... They didn't kill us, but they didn't end it, either.
Of course, we will face fear, experience ridicule, and meet opposition. Let us have the courage to defy the consensus, the courage to stand for principle. Courage, not compromise, brings the smile of God's approval.
But I despised men who accepted their fate. I shaped mine twenty times and had it broken twenty times in my hands.
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