Be peaceful, be courteous, obey the law, respect everyone; but if someone puts his hand on you, send him to the cemetery.
Malcolm XRead
Every time a young girl comes in and asks me for advice, if you start your conversation with, 'How hard is it as a black woman,' or, 'How hard is it as a woman,' I turn you around. Because I cannot - we cannot look at the roadblocks and see the road at the same time.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of focusing on opportunities rather than obstacles faced by young women, especially in the context of race and gender.
Tamron Hall's quote highlights the need for young women to approach life with a mindset that prioritizes possibilities over challenges. By advising against starting conversations with a focus on hardships, she encourages empowerment and resilience, suggesting that recognizing roadblocks can hinder one's ability to see and pursue potential paths to success.
In practice
During a mentorship program for young women, I shared Tamron Hall's quote to inspire them to focus on their strengths.
Be peaceful, be courteous, obey the law, respect everyone; but if someone puts his hand on you, send him to the cemetery.
I promised never to let the Rwandan Genocide die because I knew the Rwandans didn't have much power internationally and certainly didn't have the resources. I felt it was my duty having witnessed it, and having stayed to witness it, that I had to talk about it and keep it going.
Wherever men and women are persecuted because of their race, religion, or political views, that place must - at that moment - become the center of the universe.
It is one thing to open job opportunities. It is another to train people to fill them, or to persuade American enterprise to seek Negro as well as white applicants.
I always felt that whatever I had to endure was nothing compared to what the average soldier, sailor or airman had to put up with.
If you are lucky enough to never experience any sort of adversity, we won't know how resilient you are. It's only when you're faced with obstacles, stress, and other environmental threats that resilience, or the lack of it, emerges: Do you succumb or do you surmount?
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