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I used to believe everything my brother told me, because he was older and I figured he knew more about the world. But as it turns out, being a grown-up doesn’t mean you’re fearless. It just means you fear different things.
Jodi Picoult
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Growing up does not eliminate fear; it simply changes what we fear.

This quote highlights the misconception that adulthood brings a sense of fearlessness. Jodi Picoult reflects on her childhood belief in the infallibility of her older brother, using this realization to convey that maturity is not about being free from fear, but rather about confronting different challenges and anxieties in life.

Themes

FearGrowing UpWisdomLifeAdulthood

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This quote could be used in a speech about the realities of growing up.

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