For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else.
Interpretation
Life is a balance of gains and losses; every opportunity comes with trade-offs.
This quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson emphasizes the intrinsic duality of life where every gain comes at the cost of a loss, and every loss may lead to new gains. It encourages us to recognize that while we may mourn what we miss, we should also appreciate what we have gained in its place, reflecting the complexity and interconnectedness of our experiences.
In practice
In a graduation speech about the bittersweet transitions in life.
It is plain that there is no separate essence called courage, no cup or cell in the brain, no vessel in the heart containing drops or atoms that make or give this virtue; but it is the right or healthy state of every man, when he is free to do that which is constitutional to him to do.
Few people have any next, they live from hand to mouth without a plan, and are always at the end of their line.
Men cease to interest us when we find their limitations
Tis the good reader that makes the good book; a good head cannot read amiss: in every book he finds passages which seem confidences or asides hidden from all else and unmistakeably meant for his ear.
The world belongs to the energetic.
Hast thou named all the birds without a gun?
Truth is a tyrant-the only tyrant to whom we can give our allegiance. The service of truth is a matter of heroism.
I looked at my hands to see if I was the same person.
I am for those means which will give the greatest good to the greatest number.
Very often, I confess, the teller of dreams bores me. His dream could perhaps interest me if it were frankly worked on. But to hear a glorious tale of his insanity! I have not yet clarified, psychoanalytically, this boredom during the recital of other people's dreams. Perhaps I have retained the stiffness of a rationalist. I do not follow the tale of justified incoherence docilely. I always suspect that part of the stupidities being recounted are invented.
There is a dark side in all of us. And for us 'bad' people, the bad side dominates. I think there is a great sadness in villains, and I have tried to put that across. We cannot stop ourselves doing what we are doing.
And if the City falls and one survives _x000D_ he shall carry the City within on the roads of exile _x000D_ he shall be the City
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