All thought of something is at the same time self-consciousness [...] At the root of all our experiences and all our reflections, we find [...] a being which immediately recognises itself, [...] and which knows its own existence, not by observation and as a given fact, nor by inference from any idea of itself, but through direct contact with that existence. Self-consciousness is the very being of mind in action.
Existence permeates sexuality and vice versa, so that it is impossible to determine, in a given decision or action, the proportion of sexual to other motivations, impossible to label a decision or act ‘sexual’ or ‘non-sexual’ . There is no outstripping of sexuality any more than there is sexuality enclosed within itself. No one is saved and no one is totally lost.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that sexuality is intricately connected to existence and motivations, making it difficult to classify actions as purely sexual or non-sexual.
Maurice Merleau-Ponty's statement reflects on the complexity of human experience, particularly the relationship between existence and sexuality. He argues that sexuality cannot be isolated from other aspects of life, and every decision or action is influenced by an amalgamation of motivations that include, but are not limited to, sexual ones. This interconnectedness implies that human actions are multifaceted, and trying to label them strictly as 'sexual' or 'non-sexual' oversimplifies the rich tapestry of human behavior and existence.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the influences behind human behavior, this quote can highlight how intertwined our motivations are.
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