Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, not of words. Trust movement.
Alfred AdlerRead
We are not determined by our experiences, but are self-determined by the meaning we give to them; and when we take particular experiences as the basis for our future life, we are almost certain to be misguided to some degree. Meanings are not determined by situations. We determine ourselves by the meanings we ascribe to situations.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our understanding and interpretation of experiences shape who we are, not the experiences themselves.
This quote by Alfred Adler emphasizes the power of our perception and interpretation of experiences in shaping our identity and outlook on life. Rather than being mere products of our circumstances, we have the agency to assign meaning to our experiences, and it is this assigned meaning that ultimately influences our future decisions and beliefs. If we allow our interpretations to be misinformed by singular experiences, we risk steering ourselves off course in life.
Themes
ExperienceMeaningSelf-DeterminationPerceptionIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming adversity, you might use this quote to illustrate that how we interpret our struggles can empower us.
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