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Eye contact was a delicate matter. A quarter second of a shared glance was a violation of agreements that made the city operational.
Don Delillo
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote highlights the significance of eye contact in social interactions and the unspoken rules governing personal boundaries in urban life.

In this quote, Don Delillo emphasizes how eye contact can serve as a powerful yet risky form of communication in a bustling city. The fleeting moment of a shared glance represents a break from the implicit agreements that individuals have established to maintain a sense of privacy and order in their crowded lives. It suggests that even brief interactions carry weight in a society where personal space is often respected and preserved.

Themes

Eye ContactRelationshipsSocial NormsCommunicationUrban Life

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about non-verbal communication, this quote can illustrate the complexities of human interactions.

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