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The fact is that when you make the other suffer, he will try to find relief by making you suffer more. The result is an escalation of suffering on both sides.
Nhat Hanh
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Causing pain to others often leads to a cycle of suffering for both parties.

This quote by Nhat Hanh reflects the Buddhist concept of interdependence, emphasizing that when one person inflicts suffering on another, it not only affects the victim but also triggers a retaliatory response, leading to a continuous cycle of pain and conflict. It highlights the importance of compassion and understanding in breaking this cycle and fostering peace and healing.

Themes

SufferingCompassionInterdependencePeaceConflict

In practice

Example use cases

In a workshop on conflict resolution, I shared this quote to emphasize the importance of empathy.

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