Do not live with a vocation that is harmful to humans and nature. Do not invest in companies that deprive others of their chance to live. Select a vocation that helps realise your ideal of compassion.
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The fact is that when you make the other suffer, he will try to find relief by making you suffer more. The result is an escalation of suffering on both sides.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Causing pain to others often leads to a cycle of suffering for both parties.
This quote by Nhat Hanh reflects the Buddhist concept of interdependence, emphasizing that when one person inflicts suffering on another, it not only affects the victim but also triggers a retaliatory response, leading to a continuous cycle of pain and conflict. It highlights the importance of compassion and understanding in breaking this cycle and fostering peace and healing.
Themes
SufferingCompassionInterdependencePeaceConflict
In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop on conflict resolution, I shared this quote to emphasize the importance of empathy.
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