I am an ordinary person who has been blessed with extraordinary opportunities and experiences.
Sonia SotomayorRead
You know, failure hurts. Any kind of failure stings. If you live in the sting, you will - undoubtedly - fail. My way of getting past the sting is to say no, I'm just not going to let this get me down.
Interpretation
Failure is painful, but one must not dwell on it to overcome challenges.
In this quote, Sonia Sotomayor emphasizes the inevitability of experiencing failure and the associated pain it brings. However, she advocates for a proactive approach to dealing with these setbacks by refusing to allow the sting of failure to dictate one's mindset and decisions, instead choosing to rise above the adversities faced.
In practice
In a motivational speech to young entrepreneurs discussing overcoming challenges.
I am an ordinary person who has been blessed with extraordinary opportunities and experiences.
This wealth of experiences, personal and professional, have helped me appreciate the variety of perspectives that present themselves in every case that I hear.
I was fifteen years old when I understood how it is that things break down: people can't imagine someone else's point of view.
The truth is that since childhood I had cultivated an existential independence. It came from perceiving the adults around me as unreliable, and without it I felt I wouldn't have survived. I cared deeply for everyone in my family, but in the end I depended on myself.
As you discover what strength you can draw from your community in this world from which it stands apart, look outward as well as inward. Build bridges instead of walls.
There are uses to adversity, and they don't reveal themselves until tested. Whether it's serious illness, financial hardship, or the simple constraint of parents who speak limited English, difficulty can tap unexpected strengths.
What we can control is our performance and our execution, and that's what we're going to focus on.
I have grown to appreciate the power of believing in myself and of always having faith in myself. I rarely look back; instead, I always look forward. There is so much of life that we miss when we wallow in regret.
If you aim higher than you expect, you could reach higher than you dreamed.
Often the very things that you think have disqualified you are the ones that qualify you to do what God has called you to do.
You always think, 'Oh, if only I had a little chalet in the mountains! How great that would be and I'd do all this writing' Except, no, I wouldn't. I'd do the same amount of writing I do now and the rest of the time I'd go stir crazy. If you're waiting for the perfect moment you'll never write a thing because it will never arrive. I have no routine. I have no foolproof anything. There's nothing foolproof.
I can imagine few things more trying to the patience than the long wasted days of waiting.
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