You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
I like the fans’ sound at night. Do you? It’s like somebody big far away goes like: it’sOKit’sOKit’sOKit’sOK, over and over. From very far away.
Interpretation
The sound of fans at night brings a sense of reassurance and calm, akin to a distant affirmation.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace reflects on the soothing background noise created by fans during the night. He draws a parallel between this sound and a comforting presence that reassures us, suggesting that even when we feel alone, there are distant affirmations that can bring us peace and tranquility.
In practice
In a speech about finding tranquility in everyday life, one might reference this quote to illustrate the comfort of familiar sounds.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
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The Element is about discovering your self, and you can't do this if you're trapped in a compulsion to conform. You can't be yourself in a swarm.
There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to truth; not going all the way, and not starting.
From this point of view, to avoid your strengths and to focus on your weaknesses isn't a sign of diligent humility. It is almost irresponsible. By contrast the most responsible, the most challenging, and, in the sense of being true to yourself, the most honorable thing to do is face up to the strength potential inherent in your talents and then find ways to realize it.
Let me be patient, let me be kind, make me unselfish, without being blind, though I may suffer, I'll envy it not and endure what comes cause he is all that I got
Think of me as a fellow patient in the same hospital who, having been admitted a little earlier could give some advice.
Miracles, contrary to popular belief, do not just happen. A miracle is the achievement of the impossible, and it is only when we put aside out greed, anger, pride and prejudice so that our minds are open and ready to accept it, that a miracle can occur.
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