For better or for worse, I've watched people die in front of me. I see how they are in the end. And they're not cynical. In the end, they wanna hold somebody's hand. And that's real to me.
It is far more comforting to think God listened and said no, than to think that nobody’s out there.
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What this quote means
This quote suggests that it's more reassuring to believe in a higher power, even with unanswered prayers, than to feel entirely alone in the universe.
Mitch Albom's quote reflects on the human need for connection and belief in a greater purpose. It implies that the idea of God listening to our prayers, even if the answer is 'no', provides a level of comfort compared to the existential dread of believing that there is no one to hear us at all. The reassurance of a deity, even in silence, implies a relationship and a greater meaning to our struggles, which can be more comforting than feeling utterly abandoned.
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Example use cases
Use this quote in a speech about faith and reassurance during tough times.
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All quotes →If we tend to the things that are important in life, if we are right with those we love, and behave in line with our faith, our lives will not be cursed with the aching throb of unfulfilled business. Our words will always be sincere, our embraces will be tight. We will never wallow in the agony of ‘I could have, I should have’. We can sleep in a storm. And when its time, our goodbyes will be complete.
Young men go to war. Sometimes because they have to, sometimes because they want to. Always, they feel they are supposed to. This comes from the sad, layered stories of life, which over the centuries have seen courage confused with picking up arms, and cowardice confused with laying them down.
What about a man who sits down to wonder Why life has cheated him? Thinks about his situation Hangs his head and cries Will we pretend, his problems don't exist? He's reaching out for help-will we selfishly resist? What about your brother? He's crying What about your brother? He's dying What about your brother?
Sacrfice," the captain said. "You made one. I made one. We all made them. But you were angry over yours. You kept thinking about what you lost. You didn't get it. Sacrifice is a part of life. It's supposed to be. It's not something to regret. It's something to aspire to.
The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.
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