I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
Marcus AureliusRead
As far as you can, get into the habit of asking yourself in relation to any action taken by another: "What is his point of reference here?" But begin with yourself: examine yourself first.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote encourages self-reflection and understanding the motivations behind actions.
Marcus Aurelius highlights the importance of understanding the perspectives from which others act. By urging individuals to first examine their own points of reference, he emphasizes that self-awareness is crucial for empathizing with and comprehending the actions of others.
Themes
Self-ReflectionPerspectiveUnderstandingEmpathyAction
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about teamwork, one might quote this to emphasize the need for understanding each other's viewpoints.
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