Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
The faults of a superior person are like the sun and moon. They have their faults, and everyone sees them; they change and everyone looks up to them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Even great individuals have flaws, yet they are still admired and respected for their potential to grow and improve.
This quote by Confucius reflects on the nature of human perfection and imperfection. It suggests that even those we consider superior or exceptional have their faults, which are visible to everyone. However, what sets them apart is their ability to acknowledge these faults and work towards personal growth, thus inspiring others. The imagery of the sun and moon signifies their constant presence and the way people look to them for guidance and inspiration despite their shortcomings.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
During a leadership workshop, one might quote this to emphasize the importance of embracing oneβs flaws.
More from Confucius
All quotes βEarnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
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