Always' was a promise! How can you just break the promise?" "Sometimes people don't always understand the promises they're making when they make them," I said. Isaac shot me a look. "Right, of course. But you keep the promise anyway. That's what love is. Love is keeping the promise anyway. Don't you believe in true love?" I didn't answer. I didn't have an answer. But I thought that if true love did exist, that was a pretty good definition of it.
This fear bears no analogy to any fear I knew before. This is the basest of all possible emotions, the feeling that was with us before we existed, before this building existed, before the earth existed. This is the fear that made fish crawl out onto dry land and evolve lungs, the fear that teaches us to run, the fear that makes us bury our dead.
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What this quote means
This quote reflects on the primal nature of fear and its fundamental role in human evolution and experience.
In this quote, John Green describes fear as the most basic and ancient emotion, one that predates humanity and the world itself. He emphasizes that this deep-seated fear has been essential for survival and evolution, motivating creatures to adapt and overcome, from ancient fish evolving lungs to the human instinct to mourn and bury the dead. By recognizing fear's profound influence on our ancestors, he highlights its significance in our lives today, suggesting that it is both a driving and a transformative force.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming fears in life choices.
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