Feelings are only your history being occasioned by the present moment. If that's your enemy, then your history is your enemy. If sensations are your enemy, your body is your enemy. And if memory is your enemy, you'd better have a way of controlling your mind in such a way that you never are reminded of things that are painful from the past. If you avoid people, avoid having your buttons pushed, avoid going to places that might occasion anxiety; if you're hammering down drugs and alcohol; these are all methods of trying to mount that unhealthy agenda.
The changes that we can make in the culture can be there for people that we will never meet, that will never know us, and that's what keeps me up at … - Steven C. Hayes
The changes that we can make in the culture can be there for people that we will never meet, that will never know us, and that's what keeps me up at …
- Steven C. Hayes
Your history's not going to go away; it isn't the same thing as dirt on the floor or paint peeling off the walls; it's not going to be solved in that… - Steven C. Hayes
Your history's not going to go away; it isn't the same thing as dirt on the floor or paint peeling off the walls; it's not going to be solved in that…
I kind of look at what's on the T-shirts and I see another solution, which also worries me. I see "Just do it." "No fear." - this kind of suppressive… - Steven C. Hayes
I kind of look at what's on the T-shirts and I see another solution, which also worries me. I see "Just do it." "No fear." - this kind of suppressive…
I think the commercial culture, and also science and technology after all, which gives us greater ease but also makes it harder for us to sit with th… - Steven C. Hayes
I think the commercial culture, and also science and technology after all, which gives us greater ease but also makes it harder for us to sit with th…
Our children are exposed to 10, 20, 30 times the number of words that our great-grandfathers were exposed to. We're exposed in a single day or two to… - Steven C. Hayes
Our children are exposed to 10, 20, 30 times the number of words that our great-grandfathers were exposed to. We're exposed in a single day or two to…
Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life. - Steven C. Hayes
Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life.
There are times when you felt especially important to another person, or cared about or loved or accepted. Well, loving relationships aren't somethin… - Steven C. Hayes
There are times when you felt especially important to another person, or cared about or loved or accepted. Well, loving relationships aren't somethin…
Almost all people suffer some form of intense inner pain at some times in their lives. The suffering might be depression, anxiety, substance abuse, o… - Steven C. Hayes
Almost all people suffer some form of intense inner pain at some times in their lives. The suffering might be depression, anxiety, substance abuse, o…
Most people are hurt deeply by betrayals in relationships. It might be better to really get up against and sort of contact that caring, and maybe tak… - Steven C. Hayes
Most people are hurt deeply by betrayals in relationships. It might be better to really get up against and sort of contact that caring, and maybe tak…
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