My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.
Erica JongRead
Growing up female in America. What a liability! You grew up with your ears full of cosmetic ads, love songs, advice columns, whoreoscopes, Hollywood gossip, and moral dilemmas on the level of TV soap operas. What litanies the advertisers of the good life chanted at you! What curious catechisms!
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the challenges and societal pressures faced by women growing up in America, influenced by various media and cultural narratives.
Erica Jong's quote reflects the complex experience of growing up female in America, where young girls are bombarded with messages from advertisements, music, and popular culture that often shape their perceptions of worth and identity. She critiques the unrealistic expectations set by society and underscores the moral dilemmas faced by women, suggesting that these influences can be burdensome and limiting, making the journey towards self-acceptance and empowerment feel like a liability.
Themes
FemaleSocietyAdvertisingIdentityPressureMedia
In practice
Example use cases
During a panel discussion on women's issues, this quote could be used to illustrate the pressures young girls face today.
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